{"id":585,"date":"2018-03-09T18:31:58","date_gmt":"2018-03-09T18:31:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wordsforthisday.com\/?p=585"},"modified":"2018-03-09T18:31:58","modified_gmt":"2018-03-09T18:31:58","slug":"save-the-date","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wordsforthisday.com\/index.php\/2018\/03\/09\/save-the-date\/","title":{"rendered":"Save the date&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Driving home from school a couple of years ago, Waylon and I heard something on a news story about the passing of a 95 year old woman.\u00a0 &#8220;Wow, she lived two years past what I&#8217;m going to.&#8221;\u00a0 I said.<\/p>\n<p>Waylon looked at me sideways.\u00a0 &#8220;What?&#8221;\u00a0 He said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m living to 93.&#8221;\u00a0 I told him.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;How do you know that?&#8221;\u00a0 He asked, clearly confused.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s the age I&#8217;ve decided on and I&#8217;ve declared it to be true.\u00a0 93.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-586 \" src=\"http:\/\/wordsforthisday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/20180302_215108-e1520617525841-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"475\" height=\"634\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wordsforthisday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/20180302_215108-e1520617525841-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/wordsforthisday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/20180302_215108-e1520617525841-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/wordsforthisday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/20180302_215108-e1520617525841-1200x1600.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 475px) 85vw, 475px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Today is my dad&#8217;s birthday.\u00a0 Today he would be 76. This picture was taken at his 48th birthday party.\u00a0 Already very sick with Leukemia, it would be the last birthday he would celebrate.<\/p>\n<p>My father&#8217;s death took a toll on my psyche.\u00a0 Acutely aware that cancer&#8211;the silent killer&#8211;could be lurking inside of my body at any time made me worry about my health and mortality.\u00a0 I worried about whether I was being proactive enough in caring for my body.\u00a0 I worried about missing &#8220;early warning signs&#8221;.\u00a0 And I worried about leaving my children without a mother.<\/p>\n<p>I worried and worried and worried.<\/p>\n<p>Until&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>A miraculous intervention from my Heavenly Father (a story that I will write about at a later date) changed everything for me.<\/p>\n<p>It was then that I finally found peace, even declaring that I&#8217;ve decided to stay on this earth until the age of 93.<\/p>\n<p>Of course I know that I ultimately don&#8217;t have control over such things.\u00a0 But even if I die tomorrow I will not regret or feel disappointment in my declaration.<\/p>\n<p>Deciding to live to 93 has filled me with added life, joy and health.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-594 \" src=\"http:\/\/wordsforthisday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sugar-bowl-2-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wordsforthisday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sugar-bowl-2-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/wordsforthisday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sugar-bowl-2-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/wordsforthisday.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sugar-bowl-2-1200x1600.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 85vw, 450px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This picture was taken at the Sugar Bowl in Scottsdale (my favorite) on my 48th birthday, and I can honestly say that in this my 48th year I feel healthier than I ever have.\u00a0 Because the funny thing about worrying about your health is, it makes you sick.\u00a0 And knowing that I&#8217;m living to 93 has given me the freedom, health and peace of mind to really live.<\/p>\n<p>So if you find yourself with nothing to do when August of 2062 rolls around, meet me at the Sugar Bowl for a grand celebration.\u00a0 I&#8217;ll be the one with lots of wrinkles and a giant banana split.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Driving home from school a couple of years ago, Waylon and I heard something on a news story about the passing of a 95 year old woman.\u00a0 &#8220;Wow, she lived two years past what I&#8217;m going to.&#8221;\u00a0 I said. Waylon looked at me sideways.\u00a0 &#8220;What?&#8221;\u00a0 He said. &#8220;I&#8217;m living to 93.&#8221;\u00a0 I told him. &#8220;How &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/wordsforthisday.com\/index.php\/2018\/03\/09\/save-the-date\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Save the date&#8230;&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-585","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordsforthisday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/585","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordsforthisday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordsforthisday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordsforthisday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordsforthisday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=585"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/wordsforthisday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/585\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":595,"href":"https:\/\/wordsforthisday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/585\/revisions\/595"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordsforthisday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=585"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordsforthisday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=585"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordsforthisday.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=585"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}